Completing Nature's Cycle

For Rick and Tanya Freudenberger, the decision to choose soil transformation wasn't just about end-of-life planning—it was about completing a cycle that perfectly aligns with their practices and lifelong values.

After decades of marriage, four children between them, and nearly 50 years of practicing Buddhism, their choice reflects a profound understanding of transformation and renewal.

"We believe in doing our part for the environment," Tanya explains. "The whole idea of composting our bodies is, well, great."

A Gift To Their Children

The Freudenbergers' journey began with practical concerns. Living in California but with roots in Seattle and Baltimore, they worried about what would happen when they passed.

"I started thinking about the kids," Tanya shares. "We're from two different places, and we live in California—what are the kids going to do with us?"

This geographic challenge, combined with Tanya's firsthand experience serving as trustee for three different estates following deaths, highlighted the importance of clear pre-planning. Each experience showed her what can happen without proper arrangements.

"I definitely don't want my kids to go through that. Not being prepared would be hurting our kids." Like many parents, sparing their children from making dozens of difficult decisions during their time of grief became a priority.

"If I were my child, I would much rather know exactly what my parents wanted," Tanya reflects. "They're already going to be sad because we passed away. Why add to that?"

Instead of managing an event-planning project during their most vulnerable time, Rick and Tanya's children can focus on processing emotions, supporting each other, and celebrating their parents' lives without being overwhelmed by urgent decisions.

A Perfect Alignment with Values

Beyond family considerations, Rick and Tanya see their choice as an environmental contribution. Their belief system views death not as an end but as a transformation—a perspective that made soil transformation feel natural.

Rick articulates this connection beautifully: "The idea is that my life will take a new form. It will be part of the earth and continue to exist, contributing to an eternity of value."

Finding Earth Funeral

Rick and Tanya's search for meaningful alternatives led them through various options—cremation, aquamation, and even mushroom suits—but found them lacking.

"Burial was not even a consideration," Tanya says, citing both expense and philosophical objections. After witnessing cremation ceremonies, she described them as "pretty violent," and “another reason to seek alternatives.”

Rick's initial plan had been cremation, with his ashes scattered at various baseball stadiums—a passion throughout his life.

But everything changed when they discovered Earth Funeral through a webinar.

"That just took away all my concerns whatsoever," Tanya says. "I am totally excited about the idea of being able to give my life back to the earth."

For Rick, an environmental engineer, the choice resonated deeply with his professional values. "I've dedicated over 50 years of my life identifying environmental problems and then coming up with solutions to correct them. This time I won’t have to work as hard though," he laughs.

One way or another, Rick will find his way on the field when the Baltimore Orioles win their next World Series—a thought that brings a smile to his face.

A Message of Hope and Legacy

When asked what they'd say to those hesitant about pre-planning or considering soil transformation, their message is clear.

"Think of your kids and their future and how much easier this would be for them. Think of the Earth," Tanya urges. "Think about the good things that you're going to be doing for the Earth. Think about the cost benefit and think about the relief you will have to know this is done."

"Everything you've done by taking this move is good, good, good, good and good. There's no downside," she continues. "It's an action of love. Not just for your kids. It's an action of love for the Earth. It's an action of love for yourself."